Veterans Day is an opportunity for us to pause and reflect on the courage and dedication of those who have served in the U.S. military. How do you recognize those who have served?
While three-fourths of Americans say they thank veterans for their service in public, a surprising insight from the CVN Veterans Day Survey 2021 reveals that approximately 58% of veterans and current service members feel uncomfortable being thanked for their service.
Instead, can we find more meaningful ways to express our gratitude and appreciation? Below, explore thoughtful approaches to honoring veterans that go beyond a simple “thank you.” From engaging in conversations to participating in community activities, let’s learn how to show our respect and appreciation in more impactful ways.
The Meaning of Veterans Day
Firstly, it’s important to know the intent of the day. Many people confuse Veterans Day, Memorial Day, and Armed Forces Day. Do you know the difference? For many vets this is an important distinction:
“I want civilians to know the distinct difference between Memorial Day and Veterans Day… It is disappointing when they confuse the two.”
– Natasha, Army Veteran
- Veterans Day is to appreciate and recognize all those who have served, in wartime or peacetime. Annually, Veterans Day is observed on November 11th.
- Memorial Day is to honor and remember those who have served in the military and died. Memorial Day is observed on the last Monday of May.
- Armed Forces Day is to thank those who are currently serving and observed on the third Saturday of May.
Understanding Veterans’ Perspectives
“On Veterans Day I would ask our civilian colleagues to learn more about our experience so they can be supportive beyond “Thank you for your Service.”
-Mike, Army and Marine Corps Veteran
To honor veterans, it’s important to first understand their experiences and perspectives. Some veterans have shared that being thanked for their service can feel awkward or uncomfortable because as it often lacks depth and understanding. Instead, they appreciate sincere conversations that acknowledge the complexities of their service. This Veterans Day, consider taking the time to engage with those who have served in a more thoughtful manner. Asking about their experiences, listening actively, and showing genuine interest in their stories can create a more meaningful connection and also demonstrate your respect for their sacrifices.
What to Say: Instead of only offering a generic “thank you,” try conversation starters that invite veterans to share their stories. Asking questions could open the door to deeper discussions. Through genuine dialogue, you can create connections that go beyond surface-level gratitude.
- What branch did you serve in?
Veterans often take pride in their branch. Whether they served in the Army, Navy, Air Force, Marine Corps, Coast Guard, or Space Force, each branch has its own unique culture and traditions. By asking this question, you demonstrate an interest in their specific experience and acknowledge the diversity within the military. - What was your job while serving?
Service members hold a wide range of positions, from combat roles to support functions, each playing a vital part in the overall mission. By inquiring about their job, you show that you value their expertise and contributions. Additionally, this question can lead to discussions about the skills they acquired, the challenges they faced, and the camaraderie they experienced. It’s an opportunity to learn more about the diverse talents and capabilities of our veterans. - Where have you been stationed?
Whether they served in one place domestically or all over the globe, each assignment comes with its own stories and memories. By asking this question, you show curiosity about their journeys and the environments in which they served. Many veterans can share about different cultures, landscapes, and missions.
Continue your learning about veterans on our Veterans Day page!
Don’t forget Veterans after Veterans Day! Warrior Call Day, observed on the Sunday following Veterans Day, serves as a nationwide call to action, encouraging the public and veterans alike to reach out and connect with those who have served. Learn more about Warrior Call Day.
What to Do: While words are important, actions can speak volumes when it comes to honoring veterans. There are numerous ways to show your appreciation beyond verbal expressions. Each of these actions demonstrates your commitment to honoring those who have served in tangible and heartfelt ways. Below, veterans also share the most meaningful ways civilians can appreciate their service.
- Fly a flag. Displaying the flag outside your home or business serves as a visible reminder of the sacrifices made by service members. It’s a gesture that conveys respect and gratitude, not just on November 11th, but throughout the year. By proudly flying the flag, you show your support for those who have served and continue to serve our country.
“I love to see the flag. I just love to see Old Glory flying high and mighty!”
– Aaron, Army Veteran
- Buy a veteran a meal. For example, taking a veteran out for a meal, covering their bill, or providing them with a gift card is a thoughtful way to show your appreciation. Although it’s a small act, it can have a lasting impact on their day.
- Attend a parade or event. Whether it’s a local parade, concert, or ceremony, attending these gatherings demonstrates your commitment to recognizing their service. It’s an opportunity to stand alongside fellow citizens in a united display of appreciation and respect for those who have served.
- Visit a veteran memorial or ceremony. Visiting a memorial or attending a ceremony is a poignant way to pay tribute to those who have served. These sites offer a place for reflection and remembrance, allowing you to honor the sacrifices made by service members throughout history.
- Volunteer or donate to a veteran service organization. Supporting veteran organizations through volunteering or donations is another meaningful way to give back. Moreover, these organizations provide essential services and support to them and their families. By offering your time or resources, you contribute to their mission and also help improve the lives of those who have served.
“When we were deployed and we received letters from different schools. It meant a lot to know that the next generation supports our sacrifices.”
– Tatiana, Air Force Veteran
Consider this list of veteran organizations to support:
- American Red Cross
- America’s Warrior Partnership
- Blue Star Families
- Cohen Veterans Network
- Elizabeth Dole Foundation
- Student Veterans of America
- Team Red White and Blue
- Team Rubicon
- The Mission Continues
- Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS)
Conclusion: Taking Action to Honor
This Veterans Day, let’s go beyond a simple “thank you” and, instead, engage in meaningful actions that show our genuine appreciation for their sacrifices. To that end, by initiating thoughtful conversations, participating in community events, and offering tangible support, we can create lasting connections and express our gratitude in ways that truly matter. Ultimately, these gestures demonstrate our respect and appreciation for the men and women who have dedicated their lives to serving our country.
For more Veterans Day activities and resources, visit our Veterans Day Page.